Told me he loved me wanted to be with me and take care of me. An Aquarius man belongs to the group of air signs who are highly social and can adapt very well to different environments. I would like to know your adviceon this! you'll get him by displays of your character to the outside world, don't focus on him so he can see you! Yet at 45 I find myself wanting this man more than I have ever wanted any man that I feel compelled to try to understand him (hence visiting websites such as these, MAD!. I've decided that I am not going to text him at all anymore, and if he wants to be with me, then he's going to have to step up to the plate because this Aries is done playing these ridiculous cat n' mouse games! 5 Be a great listener. I have known this man for 31 years, we grew up together. He's told me he likes me and has love for me. lol My aquarius disappears too. They can get YOU, but you cant get THEM. I had to remind myself who I am and that I dont accept this from anyone. But it will be a cold day in hell before I let him know that. ok I typed it all in notepad first bc I've experienced losing it service and having to re-write everything. after he purposed me?? He will continue to text you and talk to you for as long as you will allow. He told me upfront he didn't want a relationship. Im a genuine aqua man, and only thing i have to add for the ladies having troubles with their aqua man is just be as supportive as you can. He KNOWS I like him, if he liked me at all wouldn't he do something to let me know, or am I suppossed to read into his actions? I called and left 1 message, a couple of texts and an email..and no reply. Thing is I was so busy with my own life that I was very aloof in the beginning. How the hell can I have a relationship with someone who always has his sprinting shoes on, & eying the door, if I unbalance his correct amount of romance/love/affection that makes him feel 'free'? attracted to his smile and flurtatious ways. I mean there was no loyalty 4 me in this relationship. So, youre wondering what to do when an Aquarius man pulls away when in love? They will date other women while they date you and you won't even know. as my feelings for him are so so strong, but I know in my heart that I will not be able to cope with the rollercoaster ride longterm. It could be that you were so comfortable around your partner that you stopped putting any effort into your looks but now that both of you have some free time for yourselves, its the perfect time to remind him of what got him attracted to you in the first place. Reading your article has possibly stopped me from making a huge error on the next steps I take with my Aquarius friend. I lost my place after all. We talk almost every day, into the night, and we have talked about EVERYTHING. Pegged most Aquarians on the dot. If he sees that your life is not all around him, I bet you he will make a u-turn and start chasing after you because he does not want to loose you. then he started coming around every 2 weeks or went even longer without calling. Everything was always about his feelings, mines was NEVER a concern to him. Ive beenflirting with an Aquarius man for four months now. King William Fair takes place from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. on April 29. Pay more attention to what he does. I started talking to an Aquarius man online 20 months ago. so, for 7 years we were dating from his warped aqua perspective; he didn't even need or want sex to consider us a relationship. He may ask a lot of questions about you but you may find he wont answer many about himself and that can be strange but its just the way he is. 21 years of experience solving real problems for real couples. I so wish I had an Aquarian friend like you to help me make the right decisions. Its very easy to surrender yourself to those negative thoughts that hell leave you forever but maybe its not your fault that hes pulling away from you in the first place. he is acting so different now i cant stand it. Many thanks and good luck to you all. Does he still like me? That cant keep happening. Just treat them like they treat you, they back off, you back off. they WILL come around. However, while its nice to have someone who wants to spend as much time with you as possible, you have to be careful not to go overboard with it. The bad thing is I still have feeling's for him even thoe he hurt me. Hes was my first love. This is what I told her to do! Few things have worked for me when I have decided to run for it. So if you want one, act a bit like you don't want them. Heya thanx fr sharin the experience but I'm so confused (typical Aries that I am).Jst replyin to ur post and wud wana letcha kno that we still do each otha on the weeknds:) but I think nw I can say we have jst entered into this state of being frnds too(which is good I guess). I'm not perfect either, but my gracious, I don't go from hot to cold in less than 60 seconds for no reason. If I were actually in love with him (I was on my way) it would be so much worse. It's like he cast a spell on me. i think maybe he can wait to hold me and it's just all a load of bullshit!! He cant find the right words to express himself, What to do if an Aquarius man pulls away when in love. But its not fair. Just be sure to always trust your gut with how you feel. He lived in USA and just visited London about 7 times a year, I thought I don't want to meet and fall for you and then never get to see you. Will he come back? he used to smile when he came to see me and bow he has a straight face. However, crying your heart out in front of him will do more harm than good. He doesn't want to go fast at all, no matter what kind of signals he may accidentally be sending. Then the next day I didn't hear from him. He says they both cheated on him. Ok so I have read every comment, and I agree with the aries wanting to slap them all! Read all the comments here and they very much ring true about the disappearing act. The most common features of soulmate relationships. However, if you feel that youre ready for a steady relationship right now, this guy may not be the one youre looking for. Thanks for the insight. When youorder myAquarius Man Secrets program here, as a free bonus you can get in touch with me directly, and Ill advise you on your unique situation personally. I don't get it. he responds with 'ok' after 7 years of close friendship he didn't even care it was ending. Also, he may try and show off how smart he is and if you want to attract him again, then being very complimentary about his intellect will definitely help you score a few points in his book. my heart is breaking. He had some exam for 2 weeks so i let him be. Let him know that you wont tolerate certain behaviors, and be prepared to walk away if he doesnt listen. I let him suffer for a long, long, time. He even sent a telegram that it was over and he didn't want to see me anymore, apparently not realizing that I already made that decision by cutting him out of my life. For me, once I say I love someone, I will make the utmost effort to carry through and hang in through good and bad. And I kept thinking if I just hung in there he would let me into that secret place that seems so special. Thank you Anna! my first love (aqua) has come back into my life. I'm always worried that when I talk to someone, I may lose interest (not in a mean way, just in a way that there is a whole huge world out there and there's a lot to experience.) You rarely hear them say, I love you, in person because they dont like showing their vulnerable side. When he is hot, you be hot. At the time, I didn't either. These guys are used to girls throwing themselves at them, so when a girl isn't all that impressed they take notice. Honestly I had no intention of likin the Aquarius guy either, I agreed to go with the flow & thot I'd b ok & wont let my heart & my feelings get involved in this but looks like now I'm begining to like this guy with each passin day but he seems to be vry grounded, the typical Aquarius attitude of being realistic. I love him so much. THE PROCESS; ABOUT US; GET NEWS! ugh He said: I like you a lot and I care for you but I'm just not ready for love or to get lovey dovey. I will say this, though, that I have never met another man that I connected with on a such a deep level, so much that we just instinctively know what the other is thinking, that we really don't need to talk much, just chatting is good enough, most times. But what about when he hurts me? WebAquarius / By Dawn Underwood. The key to an Aquarius man is to not take any crap from them. But i knew its just me he's ignoring. I'm great friends with an Aquarian guy who's 9 yrs younger to me. After that week was up, I never heard or saw him again til seven months later. =.= and then he purpose me a ring i felt so highhhh! An introduction to synastry and compatible astrology. Then after a few weeks, he started really making an effort and making time for me. Now I'm left heart broken and have no idea where I stand. Playing the same game with a 50 year old Aquairus who act like a little lost boyHe found me searched me out said I was his soul mate wanted to maary me, moved me back to Califonia, and 3 month after we moved back he lost his son, and said he needed time away which i gave him he moved out and comes and goes when he pleases , comes to do his laundry takes me to the beach make love and than poof i don hear from him for a weekWhen I just show up at his hide out he says I am freaking out and do it to myself. The truth is that an Aquarian man is extremely reluctant to create any sort of emotional attachment with someone. 2. Hi thanks for that amazing insighti was wondering if acquarious, when they realise they behaved not so nicely, if they stay away because they feel they failed and that the person wn't like them againdo they also stay away because of guilt? Than he just straight up Disappeared. he tells me how much he loves my company. I've been talking to him for over a year and a couple of months ago he just stopped talking. At the end of the week he asked to meet me but I was too scared. I posted here a couple of months ago when the aquarius guy I had just started dating (although I have know him for over a year and we knew we liked each other a long time ago) and still am dating I THINK? And what to do when he reappears as nothing happened? Who knows, probably because they tend be so unpredictable, he may text and say something really crazy and want to "hook-up" again, and if that happens, then I'll deal with it when happens! Any help on this? he was all about it the first 2 months I was blown away, i left my taurus boyfriend to explore things with him. Best of luck to everyone! Instead, hell take his time to get to know you and once hes finally ready to confess his love for you, hell make the first move and go to you. I think Aquarisns can be quite emotionally selfish in so far as they need you when they need you but expect you to be quite independent as well. luckily i'm at a point in my life where i'm not needy for attention and don't want to be with a man that hasn't really thought it out and is actually brave enough to face it. He was talking up the future, and then 2 months later he was gone. Questioning myself, going over all the times we were together trying to figure out if he was sincere in those moments, wondering why he is not calling. They love women with whom they can have such conversations and talk to about anything. Anyway, me and my Aqua guy chatted for a couple of hours every night for a week and were flirty, funny and I felt wow, I am falling for this guy and I haven't even met him. He enjoys getting your love messages but too many of them will make him feel suffocated. Then we lost contact somehow for about 2months. May be they do just get so scared of losing their freedom that they take themselves away rather than we push them away - thinking that in the meantime we will get the message and not even try to pin them down. If he wants to be with you, he will. Oh the anguish he has caused my heart, I need to get of this roller coaster ride as he is driving, and I am emotionally exposed (very uncomfortable for me). Is his I need time and space a way for him to nicely say we are done? And then it becomes a sudden realization that my partner might be reading more than simple friendship or affection into it and, in order to fix and think about this, I cut off and take a break. What do you think of that Aquarius man who wrote this article? He seems to lack perspective, emotional maturity/intelligence, internal locus of control, self-awareness & communication skills. And its almost a challenge or a mystery you feel compelled to solve. Keep in mind that an Aquarian man is drawn to mystery, so use this to your advantage and hell be all over you again. But it wasn't good enough. It's just madness to have to work that hard to be with someone, doesn't make any sense to me! We had talked and I thought everything was fine. WebHeres how to deal with an Aquarius man who is distancing himself from you: Stay calm and collected Give him some space before contacting him again Refocus his attention on enjoying your company Stay positive around him Prove to him that youre not trying to take away his freedom Ive been dating this gorgeous guy for 9 months, we hit it off straight away, met each others kids and he recently met my parents. The most common features of soulmate relationships. If you see an Aquarian in a club, hell most likely be surrounded by a group of friends; theyre very important to him and he cant imagine his life without them. He said, he is seeking clarity as to whether he wants to push forward in this or not. He wants to enjoy every second of his life and is mostly focused on whats happening right now. The worst thing that you could do would be to constantly check up on them, demand an explanation or make them feel guilty (it will only cause them to isolate themselves even further). Has anyone had a similar experience with a break up with an Aquarian man? We were joined at the hip. Of course, one of the most direct and quickest ways to find out why hes pulling away from you is to talk to him. If youd like, you can learn more about me on this page here. I had no idea my aquarius guy friend had a crush on me for the longest time. If youre seeing any of these signs, its time to take action. People often say distance makes the heart grow fonder and thats actually true. WebWhy do aquarius disappear? He told me he has considered giving me space in his closet at his house and has considered telling me that he loves me. He has a lot of people wanting his time. Aries woman who has embarked on a very strange (for me) and confusing relationship with an Aquarius male and just don't know where I stand, but then again reading all these postings it seems that maybe I never will! But no matter how i tried to prove to him he had a good woman on his side. Aquarians like to go with the flow and switch subjects. Give them feedback for thats what they thrive on, social interactions. Im at lost of words, do kno wat to do. And what the hell is wrong with me that I feel this much for someone who isnt REALLY giving me a reason to? I somehow take more time to get over a lost friendship than a lost relationship. So many of you have more experience than I do with these men and I would be 4ever grateful for any advice, hints or tips that can be offered. An introduction to synastry and compatible astrology. Also, keep in mind that your goal is to make him feel your absence, so practice self-restraint and resist the urge to pick up when he calls or texts you. If I am not busy and missing him, I will call my girlfriends and chi chat on the phone. Mind your own business. Sorry but they will cheat they will do whatever to make things good 4 them including cheating ( aquarius man). i mean he really got my heart! If an Aquarius man keeps coming back to you, its for a reason. This disappearing thing they do has got be one of the most perplexing and annoying things they do, even though I completely understand the need for "alone time" and "freedom" because I'm a lot like this myself, but the other thing he does that makes me, like others, want to slap the snot out of him, is him not replying when you can be in the middle of a texting conversation, and POOF, he's vanishes no into thin air, and you have no fricken idea WHY or what the heck is going on, and when you do ask you get no reply, which is just so immature and disrespectful, or at least that's how it comes across, and this just drives me nuts, nuts, nuts!!! 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